Don't Worry, They'll Tell You. This is my version of the "How can you tell if someone is a vegan?" meme, which I've also seen with "atheist". It might be funny to some people, but my real life experience from yesterday is but one illustration (out of many) of the perhaps 90+% of the time when it's the other way around. It's only when the minority finally voices their marginalized opinions that the aggressors believe it is we who are rude and outspoken! In my non-internet life, I am extremely polite and non-confrontational. I don't voice my opinions to pretty much anyone, even those close to me. And to those I've never even met before, I am polite to the greatest degree possible. Here is a story about what happened yesterday. I will put it in the form of a dialog. Of course, it was longer, and I can't remember everything, but I'll give you the gist. My thoughts are in parentheses. Setting: I am out for a walk to exerc...